Women's Talking Point
Perhaps you would say, topics among women are nothing more than gossip news, discuss about theirs children or spouse, fashion …etc. Yes, those are a part among them. I had a reunion with my close friends recently; we talked about women' s view on the marriage. May be most of us reach to the suitable marriage stage, thus we had different point of view for that. Do you know what we chatted?
Ms. F said: " As a woman, must or have to find a man to marry and produce before 30, that would be a real woman" .
Ms. J replied :" Right, if women don’t marry and give birth after 35 which would be very dangerous in produce at advanced in ages.
Ms. C:" Perhaps you are right, well, if the feeling of affinity hasn’t arrived, how could I just discussed about this?”
Ms. F. "L.O.L. Which generation you are living in? You can meet or find friends through various ways. It is no differentiate for man chases lady or lady chases the man! Don’t you need matchmaking like your predecessorin the fortieth/fiftieth era?”
Ms. C:" What’s bad for matchmaking? Both of them could get along with each other at least, then figure out whether he/she is that Mr. or Ms. right.”
Ms. J:" Hey, during my grand Parents period, they related on written letters for their communication and seldom meet. They cultivated their love feeling until after marriage. “
Ms. C:" Hm. . Hm. . . Hm. . This isn’t being in love! I would rather find one loves you more than you love him which will bring your bliss in all one's life."
Ms. F:" I disagree, you see most people got pregnant before their marriage, you can hit separately when some problems are confronted. What might if your spouse leaves you in the future, you still have your child to accompany you to spend old age.
Ms. C: ‘What? Relying on your next generation to hold you and your spouse together? Is this a true love? Have you think about the future of your child? She/he might be affected by you in living in a single family.”
Ms. J: " Come on, be open mind. It is normal case for most of the people would get divorced when problems are appeared. If everyone has the same thought as you, who will marry with you when you are old.
Ms. C: " Gee!!! As you can see, thousands of independent ladies who don’t marry in this world, they can still alive! "
*Sigh* why they had sort of opinions?!? What on earth is that hard to seek an ideal marriage life?
4 Comments:
Wow...talk about selfish, short-sighted people! If that is "normal" in this day and age, no wonder society is so messed up!
Moody:
For some extent, I don’t overrule my friend’s points of view. Actually, at least there are 3 of 10 people were messed up of their marriage life in the real world. (I think) (Married, divorced ‘n Married again). I wonder where are the commitment and potency of their marriage written agreement when they countersigned in front of the witness.
Most people just accept the way things have been done in the past and never look into the history of it or question the assumptions behind it. They keep doing the same things and wondering why it fails to bring them happiness.
All their thinking is for nothing if they start out with incorrect assumptions.
Good Point! PandaB:
Even though people had a correct assumption at the beginning, right in the middle, they might have problem and would cause the same ending.
Perhaps the young generations don’t have that sort of tolerance to put up with people. :-(
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